If there was a pill or an injection that you could take as a mother to help you cope with all the struggles and fights that you have to take on for your kids trust me I would for once be pushing in the queue to get mine before they ran out.
The last two weeks for me has meant constant emails to oldest daughters school due to her being bullied for which they yet again don’t seem capable of doing anything about. Then monday we had a CAF meeting where it became apparent that to try to get youngest help in the high school is going to be another battle because they seem incapable of giving dates so that meetings can take place to help with the transition.
This only leaves you wondering if you have made the right decision although there really isn’t another alternative because the school is the feeder school so they brainwash children into wanting to go there. This means for us with a child with Autism they refuse to go anywhere else.
I know nothing will be sorted out before christmas but you would at least like to know that the ball is rolling and that they are going to do all they can for your child.
As for my eldest well still the bullying continues add this to the fact that the head of year who is also one of her teachers always seems to be excluding her from things, really to not have her exercise book once is a mistake as its nearly every lesson what does that make it, oh and who do I have to report the bullying to yes you have guessed it her head of year.
Add this to the news yesterday that I got told that youngest daughter may need to have her jaw broken and reset in the right permission along with two teeth out or she could have braces and two teeth out, the first brace will force her jaw in the right place and after that has worked then she will need to have another brace which will force her teeth round. Would anyone care to explain this to a child with autism who has to have the same clothes and the right fitting who it took 10 years to wear her glasses and still that’s not all the time.
So the present I want most this year is strength to take on all the battles that are due to be coming my way.