Yesterday day had to be one of the worst appointments I have ever had to sit through. The reason for the appointment is that youngest has had problems with her bladder since birth & now that she has reached the grand age of 12 it has got worse. After waiting a year to see the consultant & completing the sheet which required you to measure the wee & drink intake.
I went knowing that one of the things they were going to say that she doesn’t drink enough & therefore doesn’t visit the toilet enough. What I wasn’t prepared for was two doctors & one nurse sitting giving me a lecture on how she needs to drink more, not listening to a word I was saying or answering the questions that I had.
For a child with autism seeing someone different is hard enough but seeing 3 people at the same time was over kill. There was absolutely no consideration given to her needs or the problem.
During this wonderful visit I was told to bribe her if she drinks a litre of water a day at the end of the week she can have a present & then after 3 months she could have a iPad. So for a autistic child who takes things literally she’s expecting a iPad that the doctor promised her.
I have never left a doctors appointment feeling so useless,guilty & upset as I did yesterday & now I must save up for a iPad.